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Dear Annie: Narcissist manipulated me for 37 years of marriage; now I’m lost
Dear Annie: I was in an abusive, controlling marriage when my children were small, and I couldn’t leave until they created their own lives. I finally got out of this marriage, after 37 years, thank God! While I found my way out, my problem is in how best …